Remember the first time you fell in love with gags and blindfolds? You then got that video of a gaggedgirls and you watched it on a loop. You wondered what it’d take to find a partner as passionate and about gags and blindfolds as you. Two years down the line and you’ve only found a partner who unfortunately, left town for business. All is not lost. You can still enjoy gags and blindfolds. For that to happen though, avoid the following mistakes by all means.
Assuming You Know
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve enjoyed gagging. It doesn’t matter too how much you’ve read about gags and blindfolds. That’s because individual experiences are unique. Your partner could enjoy the same thing you can’t stand. The same video of a gaggedgirls you’re into could be the same one your partner hates. With that in mind, be willing to learn new stuff every other time you’re with your partner. More importantly, learn to strike a compromise on things you don’t agree on.
Communication Failure
This is important because once you’re gagged and blindfolded, there’s no way you can talk. Your best bet is communicating via gestures. That alone explains why you should figure out how to communicate. What happens when the cuff around your wrist is suddenly too painful? What happens if you suddenly experience shortness of breath? Agree on how you can let your partner stop what they are doing. More often than not, this is as simple as opening your palms and closing them. You can also go the squeaky toy way. That is, get a squeaky toy. Press it and have it squeak several times to let your partner know that you’re distress. You can of course, use the thumbs up gesture to let them know you’re having a good time.
Hygiene Issues
This is a no brainer. You know what to do here. Simply show up clean. Shave, clean up and yeah, smell nice. A little body odour is and will always be a deal breaker. Be sure to also have clean towels for use after you’re done.